MEMORIAL SERVICE

Barry McIlheney

13th May 1958 - 25th May 2025

On Tuesday 16th September, 2025 at 11:30am a service of thanksgiving for the life of Barry McIlheney was held at St Bride’s Church, Fleet Street.
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Introduction

The Revd Canon Dr Alison Joyce delivered the opening:

As the Journalists’ Church, it is our immense privilege to be hosting this service to honour the memory and celebrate the life of a man who was outstanding in his role as an editor and CEO – and tireless in his support for journalists and the publishing industry – a career that was the more remarkable because the route by which Barry McIlheney achieved these heights was by no means conventional. 

His back story included time spent working in the steel works in Belfast, as a porter in Belfast Royal Infirmary, and as a librarian – alongside, of course, performing in a Belfast punk band.  From writing freelance, he went on to study journalism at City, having discovered his true vocation.

Barry’s death came as a terrible shock, and his loss has been a devastating one, not only to the family that was so very close to his heart, and to his many, many friends – but also to those in the profession who were privileged to know him.

St Bride’s was a church that was incredibly close to Barry’s heart.  So we are honoured to remember with thanksgiving here today, a man who contributed so much to the industry he loved; and enriched the lives of so many who knew him and loved him.

Barry remained immensely proud of his Belfast roots – and it is just possible that you might glimpse the odd hint of an Irish theme during this service.

We begin with some words by the priest and poet John Donne.

Let us pray:

Bring us, O Lord, at our last awakening
Into the house and gate of heaven,
To enter into that gate and dwell in that house
Where shall be no darkness nor dazzling, but one equal light;
No noise nor silence, but one equal music;
No fears nor hopes, but one equal possession:
No ends nor beginnings, but one equal eternity
In the habitations of your glory and dominion,
World without end. Amen.

Addresses

Mary McIlheney

Lola Borg-McIlheney

Philip Thomas

Readings

Simon Humphreys read Digging by Seamus Heaney

Between my finger and my thumb
The squat pen rests; snug as a gun.

Under my window, a clean rasping sound
When the spade sinks into gravelly ground:
My father, digging. I look down

Till his straining rump among the flowerbeds
Bends low, comes up twenty years away
Stooping in rhythm through potato drills
Where he was digging.

The coarse boot nestled on the lug, the shaft
Against the inside knee was levered firmly.
He rooted out tall tops, buried the bright edge deep
To scatter new potatoes that we picked,
Loving their cool hardness in our hands.

By God, the old man could handle a spade.
Just like his old man.

My grandfather cut more turf in a day
Than any other man on Toner’s bog.
Once I carried him milk in a bottle
Corked sloppily with paper. He straightened up
To drink it, then fell to right away
Nicking and slicing neatly, heaving sods
Over his shoulder, going down and down
For the good turf. Digging.

The cold smell of potato mould, the squelch and slap
Of soggy peat, the curt cuts of an edge
Through living roots awaken in my head.
But I’ve no spade to follow men like them.

Between my finger and my thumb
The squat pen rests.
I’ll dig with it.

Colin McIlheney read The Lake Isle of Innisfree by William Butler Yeats

I will arise and go now, and go to Innisfree,
And a small cabin build there, of clay and wattles made;
Nine bean-rows will I have there, a hive for the honey-bee,
And live alone in the bee-loud glade.

And I shall have some peace there, for peace comes dropping slow,
Dropping from the veils of the morning to where the cricket sings;
There midnight’s all a glimmer, and noon a purple glow,
And evening full of the linnet’s wings.

I will arise and go now, for always night and day
I hear lake water lapping with low sounds by the shore;
While I stand on the roadway, or on the pavements grey,
I hear it in the deep heart’s core.

Michael Hogan read an extract from The Dead by James Joyce

Music

The choir & organist of St Bride’s performed the following anthems and songs:

Fidelis – Percy Whitlock
Psalm 121 – Henry Walford Davies
Londonderry air – trad. arr. Bob Chilcott
Ubi caritas et amor – Maurice Duruflé
She moved through the fair – trad. arr. David Mooney
Into the mystic – Van Morrison arr. Matthew Morley
A selection of Irish folk songs for Uilleann Pipes played by Tom Lynch

Hymns

Love divine, all loves excelling
The Lord’s my shepherd
Abide with me

Obituary

congregation sitting for service

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